Grow Up. This Means You.

Is it just me, or do you instantly lose respect for someone the moment you hear them complain -- in a book, in a conversation, in a blog, on Twitter, wherever?

I'm not saying "don't identify problems." I'm saying "be proactive about it." I have better things to do than to hear a grown man bitch at his wife in public or read about someone feeling "wronged" by someone else... just as examples.

Whatever happened to proactive personal responsibility?